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After being together for a year and a half, she told Greg that she wanted to take a break from the relationship while she was under so much stress. When I asked Greg how he felt about this, he answered that he was scared and did not want to break up.

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I wondered what they hoped to get from therapy, and wondered if they might have two very different goals in coming to see me. It is important for me to understand this first and get a lot of clarity about what each of them are hoping for.

We all agreed that if there was a way for Julie to feel that the relationship helped her with her stress rather than adding more, that would be ideal situation that would create happiness for both of them. However, if this was not able to happen, Julie will leave for as long as it takes for her life to feel more stable. At this point, my job had been defined. Greg was in agreement with this, but said that he would be happy to try anything new that might keep them together.

I began wondering about why some people want to be with their partner when they are under a lot of stress while others want to be alone. It seemed to me that Julie felt under tremendous stress and sought to feel better by taking a break from the pressures of a relationship. However, I know that it is possible for someone to find comfort in a relationship in her situation.I asked her to stay with that feeling and to say to Greg, “I just can’t stay with you…” and let the sentence finish itself without pre-thinking an ending.

She said, “I just can’t stay with you because there is too much pressure.” I asked to continue with the sentence and she said, “I just can’t stay with you because there is too much pressure and I’ll pop.” I then asked her to stay in that feeling and finish the sentence, “There is too much pressure because…” She immediate exclaimed “Because I can’t be myself.”

Once he had this in mind, I asked him just to keep visualizing this image of her feeling distressed and not to do anything to change it. He told me that this was hard for him and it gave him a sinking feeling in his chest. I asked him to stay with that feeling and try saying to Julie, “If I don’t try to change you.” and let the sentence finish itself. He said that he didn’t feel like he was trying to change her, so we changed his sentence to say, “If I just allow you to feel this way and do nothing, then…” He took a few deep breaths and said, “If I just let you feel this way, you will never get better and you will be depressed forever.”

I now felt like I might have a pretty good sense of what was going on, so I asked him to make that a little more explicit. I asked him to try out saying to Julie, “I just can’t let you be sad or fried all the time or you will never get better.” He said that it felt true to say it. I then asked him to go even further and try saying, “Even if it makes you feel pressured to change, I just can’t let you be sad or fried all the time or you will never get better.” Neither of them had had any idea that this was true prior to our session. Greg quickly recognized how significant this was. He said, “Wow. If I can’t stand to just let you feel sad and stressed out, then it makes sense why you don’t feel like you can be yourself around me.”

In a follow up call five months later, Greg told me that he had realized how much pressure he had been putting on Julie to get better and that he had been able to start feeling more comfortable when she felt distressed. He said that they were still together, and that while Julie would still get overwhelmed by work and school and grief over her mother every so often, she no longer would push him away at those times.

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A night at the bar gave me the answer.

It’s a situation just about every guy can identify with: one of their friends looks around anxiously, locating the girls he thinks he’s capable of approaching, and the ones he knows (or thinks) he can’t. Cam’s fears and nerves were readily obvious. He was so focused on finding out where the action is that he wouldn’t notice it if it were right in front of him. In fact, that’s exactly what happened.

Just much more relaxed-and that’s what counts. He didn’t look around much at all, and this was probably the best thing he could have done. Guys like Chad just relax in their seats, lean back with their drinks, and settle in to see what happens. There’s no desperation and anxiety in their faces, which is always a good start.

Chad didn’t talk or move around a lot, but what he did do right was notice what was going on. He used his eyes, and he used his ears. Sometimes those are a lot more valuable than your mouth.

A while went by before Chad talked to anybody. Finally he noticed that this girl was speaking a dialect of Spanish he knew. He said something in the dialect that went along with she was saying.They talked all night, and are still dating now.

Ironically, my friend who had his eyes open the most, Cam, was the one who missed out on opportunities right in front of them. He’d act so worriedly, so nervously, that when this one girl who was interested in him flirted shamelessly, he didn’t even notice. I told him, “Dude, that girl wants to talk to you,” and all he could think of was his past.Any guy who could have seen the chick roll her eyes in exasperation when she realized he was never going to notice.

And that’s the difference between Cam, who fails, and Chad, who succeeds: Some guys live in the moment; others live in the past. You can guess which ones are more successful.

If you really want to make it with girls, you have to start focusing on the now, not the then.

So maybe you had a tough break-up. Or a girl rejected you. Maybe you’ve never dated at all. It’s all stuff from the past. Too many guys feel like the past will dictate the future; they fear that because they messed up before, they’re going to again. But the past has nothing to do with the future.Made some MAJOR boneheaded moves. But now he gets girls all the time! That’s because he, and other great players, only focuses on the present. They live in the moment, take it all in, and invite everyone else to share that special moment with them. They make a girl realize that now is the only time that matters.

Another great method is quite simple–actually LISTEN to what the girl is saying. Like Chad, you should try to take advantage of where a girl’s conversation is going, and use it to your benefit. This one girl I had a fling with kept making references to how much she enjoyed photography. If I had my head stuck in the past, I could have easily overlooked how important this was to her. Instead, I told her to pose for some photos at the bar with me, and she had such a good time soaking in the present, taking and being in photos, that she couldn’t help but be enamored.

James B regularly explores topics of attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around the world build confidence and get the women they deserve. http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/

Thirdly, notice girls’ body language. She can be flirting with you (or Cam) shamelessly, and you may not even notice. I highly suggest you pick up “Body Language”, by Allen Pease. Also check out some of my lessons on body language and approaching. It’s all about noticing little things, and acting on them. If you’re in tune with a situation-particularly when a girl is physically showing attraction-then you’re bound to have a good time.

Finally, if the past really bothers you, do something about it. Make today better than ever. Change your attitude from one of “I’m going to screw up” to “I’m gonna have fun”. Keep repeating that, keep visualizing success, and it’s gonna be pretty hard not to enjoy yourself. Realize that meeting girls or not, today could be your last day-so have fun.

In the words of Kim Lyons: “Yesterday is a cancelled check; Tomorrow is a promissory note; Today is the only cash you have, so spend it wisely.”

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– you are not going to need to lose your pride, or to permit him to get the best of you – But obviously you are still in love with him.  It could be ideal to play a tiny bit hard to get initially, so as to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own. 

– if you are feeling like your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it could be excellent for you to start up a conversation with him.  Keep communication to a minimum to keep the level of drama to a minimum.  Short SMS messages, brief calls and online talks in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may very well want and need space. 

– Eventually he will begin to show heavy interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to actually begin to reminisce with him.  Keep in mind that you should focus basically on all the good memories linked with your relationship during the past.  While relighting a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you’re going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work. 

– If your lover isn’t responding to your slow and refined advances, you want to take it for what it is.  Either he just really is not particularly interested in you at the moment, or he really does just need space and you need to give it to him.  But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you must continue gradually advancing on him to re-ignite the relationship. 

– If your ex boyfriend gives you the right signals, you can try and open your heart up to him.  Let him know how you are feeling, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process.  If your ex is showing you that he’s thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him.  But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it could be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally. 

These are just the start steps in winning your Ex back.  They’re the first steps I followed when I lost the love of my life.  And frankly these are not my original ideas.  I turned to the Net and found a great site on how to win back ex boyfriend.

It is a easy, solid step by step plan called.  And you know, it worked like wizardry for us.  Now we are more in love than previously.

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