Make Up With Your Ex Through Communication

A lack of communication causes many break ups to occur.  Not talking, not listening, not sharing about things important to the both of you can strangle the intimacy.  People often end relationships because of bad communication.  You can learn more aboutMaking Up In Hours here.

If this was involved in ending your relationship, there are some things you can do to get your ex back.  You need to demonstrate that you can be a good listener and communicator.

Being a good communicator isn’t hard.  One way to begin is to call your ex and open up to them.  Tell them how not being with them makes you feel.  Tell them what it feels like to you in your heart to be without them.  Be open and vulnerable.  This can open up their heart to you.

Then, demonstrate to your ex that you are a good listener.  Focus on getting them to open up and talk to you.  You might inquire:  “how do you feel about how I treated you when we were together?”  You can get more about getting your love back here.

There are several tricks to being a good listener.  One of the first is ask questions like that and then shut up.  Let there be silence.  Let your ex take all the time they need to consider their feelings and begin to talk to you about them.



Aim to be a good listener and make your ex feel heard and understood.  Say things like “I’m following you, please continue…”  Then your ex may really open up, which can be crucial to getting them back with you.

It is also very crucial to not explain, rationalize, or defend yourself while they are talking.  Just make them feel heard.  Don’t interrupt.  Don’t go into some story.  Just listen until they seem done, then if appropriate explain or apologize.

There’s more to it, but just these few pointers are a great start.  If your ex feels you are becoming a good listener, they may see you in a new light.  This can open up their heart and make room for them to reconsider being with you.  You can get a complete system about resolving relationship conflict here.