Relationship Advice: Breaking Up : How to Get Over a Breakup
Posted: May 30th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: Relationship Problems | Tags: advice, Breaking, breakup, Over, relationship | 26 Comments »
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@Chowdollas yea, you never stop loving someone, your learn to live without them.
@ColtsFootballFan91 thank you I’m sorry for your loss. your story sounds very similar to mine but instead of my birthday it was our anniversary this happened.
I still have feelings for her cause after all love is like a sponge no matter how much you squeeze out there is still some left
@Chowdollas i feel you bro… i was in love with my girl. true love. and she broke up with me and the worst part is i really dont know why she did. Me and her talked about our future together and like getting married and what we would name our kids
fuck…. she broke up with me 5 days before my bday too. its been several weeks now, time heals but it takes awhile. just stay positive bro, i feel you.
@chaunie1988
ignorance is sometimes the safest route you can take, what you don’t know won’t kill you it gives you a chance to live life blindly.
@bigfrancis2000 same here ,
@Chowdollas same here dude, she did that to me last night, it freaking hurt
my girlfriend broke up with me today
. I really liked her too. it feels like knives to the heart.
The best way to deal with being dumped is Shouting Swear Words and Screaming also Punching and Kicking Everything and playing Loud Aggresive Music
i was told by my counselor ‘how long ago did you give up on her’ i cried and cried cuz its something for some of us to think about
My boyfriend broke up with me just so he can get another girlfriend and he did but he cheated on her by kissing 2 other girls and he still loves me. Seriously, wtf? It really hurts how he treated me and he’s just not worth it -___-
so here is why iam listening to this.. my fiancee of now 9 months just left me and i am 5 month pregnant.. oh thats not the worse part did i mention i am 16, i put a nine mill up to my head and started crying we have been over 4 days and he is dating again, i am so heart broken i want to pull the trigger and end it all, but i guess honestly this is my way of trying to stop it just playing sad songs over and over and crying over and over
I made the same huge mistake with a guy and this went on for over a year! Don’t let him continue to use you! The hurt in the end will be alot worse! You can’t get people to change! You deserve better! Stop seeing him!
I am seeing this guy but he never has time for me and I just can’t stop thinking about him it’s driving me mad. He uses me when he wants but I can’t help running to him, I really love him and he’s gorgeous but he don’t feel the same way about me, i’m just a convienience I just feel like crying all day I want this guy as my bf.
guys ive had to suffer from a breakup just yesterday and 2day was meant to be our 2 months, and then tommorrow would be valentines, it kills me so much and i feel as though i cant live without this person, because he was so so so different and special compared to any other guys, all guys that ive dated had either been assholes or some retard this one made me feel so special, he was so affectionate and so caring, i cant cope, need help to get over it, i cant stop thinking about our memories.
my boyfriend broke up with me not long ago. this weekend is valentine’s day and i feel like theres still a chance that i can get him back. i really need to know what guys/men expect to hear from their girfriend beside sorry. he is a very nice man and a guy like him only come once in awhile in life time.
No problem….ill send you the bill.
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University heh, i left my girl shortly after getting in university too. It demand’s so much time and effort along with work and day 2 day business like groceries, no time is left for the relationship.
Youll get over it and the next guy you get (if not just a rebound guy, which is not recommanded) will make you forget about it and fill the void.
Its ok, ask everyone around if they ever had a breakup, everyone has, and no one died from it.
There are worst things in life, itll be ok dont worry.
Thanks for the reply
I know, I suppose you’re right… its so hard not being friends with him seeing as we were friends a lot longer than being in the relationship… I’m only 19 and I need to live a little but if he wasnt miles away in uni we would still be together!! haha The world just dosnt work… Its broke
Crossing her in the subway and having to talk to her fucked me up , not in front of her, but home.
Relationships create feeling of bonding that is so strong, when it breaks you cant imagine living whitout it and you start remembering little moments, and wonder if you made a bad move leaving her since you shared so much.
When it breaks, its cause being in was more painfull then leaving, not meant to be, so dont torture yourself getting a small dose of connection here and there, it wont help
Bad idea to be friends.
I was with my girl for 5 years, and i decided it didnt work anymore, and it truly did not. I know she wanted to be friends, and it can seem like a good idea sometimes, but it is not. Only thing it will do is hurt both of you, we broke up 4 times during our 5 years, and the first 3 times we stayed friends, all it does when things dont work is cause even more torture.
Its really best to move on. You have to get BUSY dont just sit home and think about it all the time.
me and my bf broke up 2 weeks ago… we were together for two years… and man the best thing to do is not to be friends… its killing me right now knowing that he could go with anyine…
we were mutual in the whole break up thing… its turned into a long term relationship after he moved to university, and it was really hard… he wants to be friends and I so badly do too.. but if we’re ever going to get over eachother we can’t.. but I want too… its such a hard decision :’(
I agree completely andy19678,
If you are in the begining phase of a breakup I don’t believe it’s helpful to start finding flaws in yourself. You have enough to deal with and plenty of time to work on yourself. It’s not easy but think of yourself as lucky for the opportunity to start fresh agian, no matter how old you are consider yourself a newborn with a new chance in life, Thats what you were before your ex and thats what you are again.
don’t dude…I’ve been single for 7 months and I still have dreams about my ex….as a matter of fact I will go thru old pics of us and feel sad and bad and all have all those emotions but in a way it’s not good to do so but then again it helps so it’s really almost like you’re tearing yourself apart. I suggest go out and socialize with new people…make new friends, get a new hobby…fu#k that b$%ch.
No offense to women but you’re cruel 
man i dnt no wat to do me nd my gf broke up today because we never hang out its because shes always busy wit her friends so we ended it but i cant stop thinking about her at all nd it hurts idk wat to do i want her bak but idk
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