Nice Guys Finish Last -Relationship Advice- Ask Chauntel
Posted: May 10th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: Relationship Problems | Tags: advice, Chauntel, Finish, Guys, Last, Nice, relationship | 25 Comments »
Chauntel explains why nice guys finish last, and gives the nice guys some pointers on what to do to get a girl interested. She reveals what women look for and what women want in less than 6 minutes and 30 seconds! You will love it! WATCH! askchauntel@gmail.com
OK SO I GET IT KNOW YOU IN ORDER FOR ME TO GET YOU I HAVE TO BE AN ASSHOLE SO IF AM NICE AM NOT A MAN TO U IN YOUR EYES I HAVE TO CALL YOU A SLUT AND WHORE AND TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED INSTEAD OF THE WAY YOU SAY YOU SHOULD HMMMM SO A NICE GUY IS A PUSH OVER HOW WOULD YOU KNOW THAT IF YOU dont DATE THEM
I think you give good advice and I think you love attension.
Like for example…I’m more of the type that if something happens where others might get physical or y’know get violent in some type of way I’ll try to walk away from it first and brush it off later as opposed to getting myself involved into something I really dont like dealing with in the first place…Imean if thats the case should I really be viewed a pushover because of that? I mean exceptions of course within whether whatever happens really pisses me off or not but still…
I feel you on certain points and I agree with you on the most part. Despite what I say here the way you put it basically is how it is and there’s no changing that way of thinking for society in general. I feel as if there should be a line drawn and recognized between guys who really are pushovers and don’t have the courage to stand up for themselves and guys who jus simply lay low and choose not to do so because they don’t like to get involved with that type of stuff.Its hard to explain exactly
I feel you on certain points and I agree with you on the most part. Despite what I say here the way you put it basically is how it is and there’s no changing that way of thinking for society in general. I feel as if there should be a line drawn and recognized between guys who really are pushovers and don’t have the courage to stand up for themselves and guys who jus simply lay low and choose not to do so because they don’t like to get involved with that type of stuff..Its hard to explain exactly
hey chauntel go fuck yourself
@justified1975 maybe you should try some prunes
This girl is full or more shit then my ass
ahah what a bitch
too much “fill in” details, just get to the point faster and be accurate in answering the question.
@BlackHeartMetal666 I agree and in reality I think the nice /nerdy man should not lower his standards getting leftovers anyway….
@KANG07 Thats the key….. Work on YOU and get the women later.
@javon415 I agree with you… That is the way it is , it is like here the leftovers be happy with it…. I refuse to settle for women with baggage… But sad to say a lot of men lower their standards and settle for women who have multiple kids and fat.
yep all very true.. nice guys have too much respect for women and have forgotten their basic male role.. which is to be the dominant one in the relationship and to lead the way..
yeah u rite and to all yall haters she is rite, but chek dis pretty girl dere is one thing u fuked up on……u said girls…..women look for men like that (most of them) but u r rite, yall niggas gotta b a lil bit of both cuz no one wants a push over pussy ass person….not even men cuz we also want women who can stand up wen there is need fo standin up cuz a woman who is jus a plain soft bitch is not attractive at all…..so the final verdict is that this WOMAN is indeed correct
@jerkycam
Yes, well.
You’re an idealist, I am a realist and as such, I’m not down with feminizing men. That’s not toughening them up, only setting them up for more failure with women.
You know, I shouldn’t have brought this topic up, it’s too deep for a Youtube comment.
Also, I’m a GUY.
Check out my channel, for Pete’s sake! Girls don’t listen to Cacophony! Not most of ‘em anyway.
@shinobivega
Lol, it’s so true!
Sometimes sometimes dudes have to let a women hold door for them, and maybe even make the comment, “welcome to the 21st century!”
you tell em sister!
@shinobivega
It’s not being too nice, it’s beign too available some times, if a girl asks for a favor, weight weather you would do it, based on what you would do for a friend or a relative.
Also, there are other things to consider, such as culture. Some see kindness as a necessity. For example: in spanish, there isn’t a direct word for nice. you could use buena gente, which is closer to “well mannered.”
@jerkycam
Look only for women who don’t see kindness as weakness.
Still, I do believe a man can be too kind & sweet, but that alone doesn’t make him unworthy. It just means he needs encouragement and a gentle, but firm, push in the right direction towards finding SOMEWAY to put more testosterone in him.
If a man is madly in love with a woman, she can plant & nurture that desire, but she probably would have to refrain from cruel insults and sexual blackmail, unless he’s a masochist.
The dead feminists of the old days must be spinning at a million fucking miles an hour in their graves hearing you speak!
After all their hard work of trying to make you ladies so empowered and self-sufficient, all o’ y’all are STILL measuring yourselves up on how strong and powerful your man is!!
HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!
Nice video! I also have a lot of relationship advice on my website. My website is called Relationship Babble. Feel free to stop by. See you there!
This is from my personal experience i consider myself a nice guy and girls have told me in the past that “im to nice” “im too predictable” “im there to protect and im safe” thats not my problem thats a womans issue they have to get past that
This is from my personal experience i consider myself a nice guy and girls have told me in the past that “im to nice” “im too predictable” “im there to protect and im safe” thats not my problem thats a womans issue they have to get past that
When a girl hits 28-29…it’s basically over for her. Most women don’t understand that they should try to marry when they are at their peak value – 19-26…and not waste their time playing games.
When a women hits her 30s, she’s got what 3-6 years of fertility left = bye bye. Nice guys can sense she hasn’t any virtue left, and they can tell she’s used. A 30 y.o. woman has to go for a man at least 10 years older now or is a fat loser.
That was the best fake smile I have seen
hey, nice guys: don’t go for hos, the real worthwhile women care about nice guys. Men stand up proud for who you are!
I mean, what’s up with this shit, we have to work our ass to the bone for a relationship, all women do is make a list of what they want and what they don’t want!