♡ Ask Nikki – What Is A Relationship?! ♡
Posted: January 10th, 2012 | Author: admin | Filed under: Relationship Problems | Tags: Nikki, relationship | 25 Comments »
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Nikki, there’s something I really disagree with you about. You seem to suggest that all teenage relationships are “pretend.” And while I agree that no, they’re not usually as serious as adult relationships that are seriously considering a path towards marriage, that doesn’t mean they’re a joke! Relationships are worthwhile EVEN if neither member is considering marriage.
I love this video it really opened my mind. Like I’m 17 and sort of average looking haha and I’ve never had a boyfriend and I feel like there’s too much pressure to have a teenage love or a high school sweetheart . Thanks so much Nikki !!
Haha I love how she figured it out in the message!(:
Nikki, does your church do Kairos? You seem like someone who has lived the fourth very often, and you’re a great role model. (If you haven’t gone on Kairos, the whole live the fourth thing probs doesn’t make much sense, but yeah ahah you’re still a great role model regardless, and thanks for the advice!)
@CharlotteSophiaSF loved your comment
I remember being young and a guy would write you a note, or call you, or have you friend ask you if you would go out with him. And you’d be boyfriend and girlfriend. You’d go to school dances together and rarely talk to each other, ESPECIALLY not in school. It’s not really a relationship. It’s cute and nice to go to a dance with someone or the movies once in a while, but it’s NOT serious, and you’re not going to get married (most likely). And saying I love you is definitely not appropriate!
super Great advice, Nikki! love you!
“how does he love you if he doesn’t even know you” HAHAHA <33333
everything you said in this video is so TRUE! I couldnt have said it better myself. you´re awesome, keep it up! <3
i agree with you 100%!! (:
@lisduperou totally agree
hey Nikki
u give such great advice and just curious what is ur job? cos i feel like this could nearly b ur profession lol ur so gud at it…curious to know what u do tho lol
Bless you
@WhittyD34 I think it’s better when her advice is more on the spot.
Hey nikki! this was a really great topic. Another thing is, I don’t think people should rush into a relationship. You shouldn’t tell a bunch of people you love them and give bits of heart away to many people. You should guard your heart so that you can give your whole heart to the person you actually love. It’s okay to be in a relationship for a while before you tell them that you love them. I wouldn’t want someone to tell me that unless they were absolutely sure that they do.
@heidiheidi0 Well, there is not really an upper limit, is there? There may be an avarage age but that’s all.
my fave advice so far, this 1 really helped me cuz it was exactly wat happened in my last relationship…I think imma take your advice n wait 2 have a real relationship
Great advice Nikki! Your words really help, keep it up!
I love this! Your words perfectly describe what a relationship should be. Before I met my BF I really had no clue what a blessing this could be: I saw the “relationships” that other people had in High School and even though I didn’t want one like that, it made me feel insufficient that I didn’t. I hope lots of girls really take your advice to heart because it is amazing!
I love that young girls have you too go to for advice Nikki! I was a late bloomer too and in high school it seemed like everyone around me was so relationship focused that they thought I was weird for not being the same. Thank you sooo much for letting girls know that that is more than okay!!
I think at the age of 14-16 it is okay to hang out with guys,and “go out” like go on little dates,at movies and just be with them,nothing serious just being around guys,not having sex at that age, for God’s sake. Because you’ll be around boys,and you’ll know a little bit about them even though they haven’t matured,and as you grow older,and form your personality, you know what you’d want to avoid in a guy later on.You shouldnt go out and LOOK for a bf,by hanging out,later on it might just happen.
you look really pretty in this video
you give really good advice!! oh and you look gorgeous! can you do a make up tutorial on this look?
I wish I wouldve had you to listen to when I was 13 and 14 lol because I was sooo soo soo into wanting to have a boyfriend!
@WhittyD34 I’m pretty sure she does. And Nikki is always prepared! She always gives the best advice and I think she’s AWESOME!