You Do Not Have to Go It By Yourself

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

Relationship Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem issues is extremely helpful in addressing this following question. Women seem to be plagued the most from trust, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this problem in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, since you responded to the survey about love and the Law of Attraction, I’m assuming you’ve considering finding a relationship for yourself. There are many who decide to stay out of serious relationships. And that need not be the case for someone who’s given up after they’ve continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any choice you make.

As long as you realize you are choosing that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t found the relationship of your dreams. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in life.

If you could see yourself from the perspective of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected consciousness. Then life begins to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what we need to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity instead of tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will grant you as simple new creatures we do need support. Fine. But soon following they understand to do things by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the little children.

Well-intentioned guides desire to do the correct thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The feeling of not-enoughness gets instilled as a child.

Neurological research now tells us that until we’re 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is not a question we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have listened to the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The subliminal communication is you’re inept, you can’t believe in you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and let yourself have a break. Firstly, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed that way too. You can stop the perpetration of low self-esteem on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE lovable. And that IS the truth!