7 Tips On How To Save Your Relationship

Posted: September 29th, 2009 | Author: social-butterfly | Filed under: Committed Relationship, Dating | Tags: save a relationship, save my relationship | No Comments »

Jim spends all  the time working his butt off, Lisbet attends to all the housework and feels that Jim does not get her while Jim feels ignored. Does this sound familiar? Can such a relationship be saved? Here’s how to do it.

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For starters, you’ll need to reason out whether the relationship is worth saving. Relationships can be brought back from the brink of disaster but only if both the parties desire this to happen. Because, if your partner decides that he or she does not want to stay in the relationship any longer, there’s not much you can do

There are many people who [stay/ linger/ wait] in the relationship all because of its convenience or even because of the children. But it is rather not enough. Securing a [association/ connection/ rapport] begins with commitment that from both the sides and then saving the relationship is worth.

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Next, you must pinpoint the problem or problems in a relationship.  One of the biggest problems in how to save a relationship is that people believe the symptoms of the problem are the problem itself.

For instance, many people think an affair is a problem that causes break ups.  In truth, the affair is a symptom of a deeper problem.  For instance, a lack of true intimacy can lead to a straying spouse.  While most people look at the affair as the problem, the underlying cause of the affair was the lack of intimacy in the primary relationship. If you’re not keen on dealing with any intimacy issue, you can use guilt to keep your partner from straying. But doing so, you may have to deal with fresh issues such as pornography, and this can happe as you have only dealt with a symptom rather than the cause.

When you begin to do the dealing with the issues that are at the [centre/ central part/ interior] instead of the symptoms, then you can secure the relationship.

Once the identification of the [cause/ source/ derivation] problem has been made by you then you can start the sharing of your thoughts. The meaning of this is the feelings being verbalized and the partner’s concerns being listened. Hold on to the hands of your partner while taking, especially the problems as a part of the signals showing that you are ready to do the reconnection in spite of the swirls in your emotions. When your [adored/ favourite/ darling] converses about the things that had caused you despair then you must know that she or he wants to cause the despair, instead of making an improvement in the relationship.

Once you have detailed the problems in your relationship, create an action plan to solve them.  Then, take concrete steps on your action plan.  If you don’t spend time together like you used to, plan a date night every week.  Take turns coming up with creative ways to spend an evening together each Wednesday.  If not communicating is the problem, commit to spending 20 minutes before going to bed just talking to one another.  And, then do it.  

The final step is realization for the security of a relationship and that is a rather [incessant/ permanent/ unbroken] process. One forward step taken by you is when you would be taking a step back. There would be the occurrence of laughs and also tears while moving [bold/ presumptuous/ cheeky]. Be ready to apologize and rather be slow while blaming.

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